You do NOT lack willpower, you are NOT weak and you are NOT powerless!!

I know that you may feel and believe that you are all of these things and have lots of evidence to back it!

But are you willing to consider that perhaps your beliefs and your "evidence" simply isn't true?

You do NOT have to continue to struggle with the overwhelming desire to drink that causes you to overuse alcohol!

I know that your reality makes it seem like dissolving your desire to drink is an impossibility!

But what if... What if it was possible? 

Dissolve Your Desire ​(DYD)

THE WAY OUT OF YOUR OVERUSE OF ALCOHOL

A 30 day intensive program for anyone who is concerned about their overuse of alcohol but just can't seem to stop it!!

THE TRUTH

Desire is one of the most powerful driving forces of our "humanness" and it is THE reason for your overuse of alcohol!!  Think about it for a minute... if you had no desire to drink, how hard would it be for you to stop overusing alcohol?  About as easy as it is stop eating worms (unless of course you like the taste of worms! ) 😊


Truth 💣...  Drinking is NOT your problem!  It is your DESIRE to drink that is the problem!  This is why dissolving your desire to drink is the way out of your overuse of alcohol.


"But I don't want to drink!" I hear you!  I get it!  And, I understand why you think that "not wanting to drink" would mean that desire is not the problem.  But, the reality is that "not wanting to drink" is not the same as dissolving your desire.  It is however an indication of your desire to dissolve your desire!!  And that my friend, is good news!!  


One more truth 💣about desire.  It is not just a powerful force in our humanness, it is also multifaceted!  It exists in our brains, our bodies, our conscious thought and unconscious beliefs.  Because of this, dissolving your desire to drink is complex and requires a holistic, supportive approach.

SO IF I KNOW THE ANSWER'S YES WHAT'S STOPPING ME?

While I am seldom short on words to any of your questions, for this question I have one word... FEAR 😨😨😨!!!


Fear that sounds like...

I WANT TO BUT NOW ISN'T A GOOD TIME

Let's get real... is there ever going to be a " good time"?  You might have a good excuse but its still and excuse!


I DON'T WANT TO BE SEEN AS AN ALCOHOLIC

Notice the word "alcoholic" hasn't come up once here?  We don't use labels or judgment!


I MIGHT FAIL AND DRINK DURING THE 30 DAYS

Ok... there is NO such thing as "failure" here.  Instead, together,  we will explore, discover, and learn!


I HAVE TRIED SO MANY TIMES AND SO MANY THING AND NOTHING HAS WORKED

I get it! But, you haven't tried this!  And I am willing to bet you haven't had intensive, holistic support!


I DON'T KNOW THAT I WANT TO STOP DRINKING

Of course you don't!  And, that's okay!  You don't have to know or decide.  Leave that for when the desire dissolves!


I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO KNOW

You can be as "invisible" as you want!  No one needs to know except me and I'm sworn to secrecy!


I DON'T THINK I CAN SLEEP, COPE WITH MY LIFE OR HAVE ANY FUN WITHOUT A DRINK

You will be intensely supported and skilfully taught how to all these things without a drink!


What ever your fear sounds like, realize this... This is what happens to all human beings when faced with considering change.  Your brain and body are simply trying to keep you safe by keeping you stuck.  But fear doesn't have to win - you can win!  You can get unstuck!  You can dissolve your desire to drink!!

DO I REALLY NEED TO DISSOLVE MY DESIRE TO DRINK?

If you are asking yourself this question than chances are you already know the answer!  But, just in case you aren't sure, here are some indicators that may help! 


🍷    At 8:00 a.m. you swear you aren't going to drink today and by 5:00 p.m. your saying tomorrow I won't drink

🍺   You promise you are only going to have one or two only to wake up the next day filled with shame about how much you drank

🍷    Alcohol has become your go to "reward", "stress reliever", and go to "I can't handle this" remedy.

🍺  Your "I can't wait until the kids go to bed to have a drink" becomes  "I can't wait to have a drink when the kids go to bed"

🍷   You find yourself lying, sneaking around, and hiding how much you are drinking

🍺  You bargain, play games and make deals with yourself of how, when, what and the amount you are going to drink

THE DISSOLVE YOUR DESIRE 30 DAY JOURNEY

This 30 day journey is backed by the latest science and research and uses the 5 principles that move anyone from where they are to where they want to be.  It is based upon the expertise that comes from thousands of client hours, training, formal education and my own personal experience.


The components of Dissolve Your Desire is built on four pillars:


🏛️  PSYCHO-EDUCATION

Understanding what is happening from a psychological and neurobiological perspective allows you to see the truth of why you desire to drink.  I assure you that this knowledge will support you in discovering the answers to the questions you've asked yourself hundreds of times.  You know the ones, "What the hell is happening to me?"  "How the f*#@! did it get like this?"  "Why can't I stop?" Perhaps more importantly, having this knowledge will allow you to shed the guilt and shame that is not serving you!  Daily tidbits and twice weekly masterclasses will provide you with the latest and most helpful knowledge you need to aid in dissovling your desire to drink!


🏛️ EXPERIMENTATION

"To know and not do is not to know!"  I don't know who this quote is from or where I heard it but I do remember being  pissed off and dismissing it as "garbage" the first time I heard it!  When I have this type of reaction it's usually a sign that it holds some kind of truth that I don't want to hear!😊  So as I studied it further I quickly came to see the wisdom in it.  The truth is that we can have all the head knowledge but if we do nothing with it, if we don't experience that which we "know" the "knowing" is useless!  Daily exercises and activities will allow you to take what you will begin to "know" through the psycho-education and "do" so that you can begin to experience your knowing.  That is where the magic lies!


🏛️ CO-REGULATION

Just a fancy pants word for support!  Remember how I said that your brain and body's reaction to change can keep you stuck because it's simply trying to keep you safe and it equates stuck as being safe?   Ya, well not going to lie... that brain/body reaction is going to happen a whole bunch over the 30 days!!  Truth 💣... without support your brain/body's natural reaction will win and you will stay stuck.  How do I know this?  Well first off your human!  And secondly, don't you think if you could have done it on your own you would have?  The intensive support you will receive through individual sessions twice weekly and the unlimited check-in opportunities IS what will ensure that you experience the knowing and the magic that comes in the doing!


🏛️ SELF-REGULATION

Just a fancy way of saying you've got this!😊 In taking a holistic, root cause approach to dissolve your desire to drink you can find your way out of your overuse of alcohol permanently!  The knowledge gained and experiences had during the Dissolve Your Desire journey will continue to support you long after the 30 days!  You will be able to easily continue to practice all that you learn and become increasingly skilled at being able to manage whatever "stuff" comes ups for you without the need for alcohol all because there is no desire to drink!

THE NITTY GRITTY OF THE 30 DAYS! 

SET-UP  FOR SUCCESS

The support starts even before you start your DYD 30 day journey.  During a 90 minute session we will cover the set up for success checklist.  We will discuss environmental and personal safety support, your personalized dissolve desire blueprint that will aid you in managing your desire before you even get started and ensure that you know how to access everything you will need during the 30 days.  


MORNING & EVENING TOUCH POINTS & TIDBITS

These touch points and tidbits will support you in starting and ending your day from a place of wellness and provide opportunity to see learn new things based upon the 5 principles so that you can experience a different way of being everyday.  These touchpoints and tidbits aren't a "here ya go" approach.  They are interactive!  This aids in your accountability to the daily "work" and allows me to understand where you are at and support you from that place. 


TWICE WEEKLY LIVE MASTER CLASSES WITH Q&A

These twice weekly 2 hour classes will provide you with indepth knowledge that will support you in better understanding the desire that drives your overuse of alcohol and how to use the 5 simple principles to dissolve it!  The Q&A portion provides you with the opportunity to get all your questions answered so that you can apply the information in a way that is most effective for you!  While understanding the "whys", the "whats", and the "hows" are important, the most powerful aspect of these classes is that you will truly come to see that your overuse of alcohol is not your fault AND that you are not alone!  


HANDOUTS & WORKSHEETS

Twice a week you will receive handouts and worksheets that will enhance the teachings in the masterclass and provide you with the opportunity to take a deep dive into uncovering the root causes that have created the cyle of desire and oversuse and discover exactly how  to dissolve your desire.  By the end of your 30 day journey you will have your own personalized manual that will serve to remind and assist you long after you complete DYD.


TWICE WEEKLY 1:1 SESSIONS

Supporting you in your struggles, celebrating you in your wins, and guiding you through your challenges in ways that are uniquely helpful for you!  Together we will explore all that you are discovering, uncover all that continues to cause your desire to drink and determine how best to move forward in the goal to dissolve it.  Helping you to lean in, move through, and carry on is the powerful process you will experience in each of your 1:1 sessions!


UNLIMITED CHECK-INS

Remember when I said that your brain and body's reaction to keep you stuck in order to keep you "safe" will happen a whole bunch over the 30 days?!  This is the exact reason why you will have unlimited access to the "ask me anything" coaching corner.  By having ongoing and unlimited access to effective and meaningful support it will ensure that you stay stuck in your brain/body's desire to keep you safe.  This alone will ensure that you experience a shift in your desire over the 30 days!
 


ARE YOU...

Ready to dissolve the desire that is causing you to overuse alcohol?

Committed to do the work and invest in you?

Willing to accept support and be coached?

APPLY NOW

Due to the instensity of support given in DYD  there are only a small amount of people who can be enrolled at any given time.  

To ensure that DYD is an appropriate and safe option and that we are a good fit to work together, acceptance into DYD is by applicaiton and interview only.


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